As I walked down the street to pick up my daughter, there was a woman standing in front of a house screaming and crying. The man whom her angry words were directed at sat and just watched her in silence. I thought to myself, the things us women do for men. As we walked past the couple my three year old asked me what was wrong with the lady. I replied she’s upset. In my head I asked myself the same question. Why do we as women constantly make ourselves into fools for men? As I sit here writing I have to ask myself another question: Are we doing it for men or for ourselves? Is it the nurturer in us to give it all we got no matter what? These days we do a lot more than embarrassing ourselves on the corner. I think we’ve brought that same mindset into the bedroom. There’s not a whole lot, a woman wouldn’t do to satisfy her man. Now I do believe that there are women who experiment sexually because they want to, but at the same time a lot of women do it to satisfy their mate. I’ve been asked on several occasions to participate in a threesome. I also know people who have participated in group sex. For me it’s a touchy subject because I am completely selfish when it comes to my man. I can’t see myself willing sharing him with another woman. For those that I know that have tried it, have done so because of several different reasons. Some have done it to please their mate. Others were curious and willing to experiment sexually with the individual that they were with. It seems like threesomes are no longer taboo and happen more than we know. If you’re curious and going to try a threesome, would you do it with your husband or someone that you’ve been dating monogamously? Or would you experiment with someone who you are casually seeing? Ad why? For those women that are participating, does that make you bisexual? Are there rules that need to be set or is this the kind of thing that needs no rules? Personally the thought of me being aroused by another female make me uncomfortable. Not because I haven’t thought about it, but because it’s uncharted territory and I don’t like the unknown. I don’t like being in uncomfortable situations or out of my element. I know there’s going to be people that say they would never, but I think you can only say that if you’ve thought about it. If you thought about it, then somewhere deep inside there’s a possibility that it can happen. Let’s say you have a threesome, what’s next. A foursome with another couple? A swinger’s club or party? And yes they are rampant and do exist. I’ve also been invited to a few of those. Growing up I would have never imagined the world of sexual experimentation becoming so open. I read several books by Zane and have always thought that it was just fantasy. I now realize fantasy has become reality. Whatever you decide, just make sure it’s something that you both want to do and it’s with someone who you really trust. My motto is to live life with no regrets. Remember that!