As I walked down the street to pick up my daughter, there was a woman standing in front of a house screaming and crying. The man whom her angry words were directed at sat and just watched her in silence. I thought to myself, the things us women do for men. As we walked past the couple my three year old asked me what was wrong with the lady. I replied she’s upset. In my head I asked myself the same question. Why do we as women constantly make ourselves into fools for men? As I sit here writing I have to ask myself another question: Are we doing it for men or for ourselves? Is it the nurturer in us to give it all we got no matter what? These days we do a lot more than embarrassing ourselves on the corner. I think we’ve brought that same mindset into the bedroom. There’s not a whole lot, a woman wouldn’t do to satisfy her man. Now I do believe that there are women who experiment sexually because they want to, but at the same time a lot of women do it to satisfy their mate. I’ve been asked on several occasions to participate in a threesome. I also know people who have participated in group sex. For me it’s a touchy subject because I am completely selfish when it comes to my man. I can’t see myself willing sharing him with another woman. For those that I know that have tried it, have done so because of several different reasons. Some have done it to please their mate. Others were curious and willing to experiment sexually with the individual that they were with. It seems like threesomes are no longer taboo and happen more than we know. If you’re curious and going to try a threesome, would you do it with your husband or someone that you’ve been dating monogamously? Or would you experiment with someone who you are casually seeing? Ad why? For those women that are participating, does that make you bisexual? Are there rules that need to be set or is this the kind of thing that needs no rules? Personally the thought of me being aroused by another female make me uncomfortable. Not because I haven’t thought about it, but because it’s uncharted territory and I don’t like the unknown. I don’t like being in uncomfortable situations or out of my element. I know there’s going to be people that say they would never, but I think you can only say that if you’ve thought about it. If you thought about it, then somewhere deep inside there’s a possibility that it can happen. Let’s say you have a threesome, what’s next. A foursome with another couple? A swinger’s club or party? And yes they are rampant and do exist. I’ve also been invited to a few of those. Growing up I would have never imagined the world of sexual experimentation becoming so open. I read several books by Zane and have always thought that it was just fantasy. I now realize fantasy has become reality. Whatever you decide, just make sure it’s something that you both want to do and it’s with someone who you really trust. My motto is to live life with no regrets. Remember that!
Speaking from a male point of view, when I was younger threesomes is something most guys fantasized about. It’s another notch on your belt. Personally IMO as “matured” adults threesomes & group sex is somewhat overrated. I mean if its unplanned and happens, right place right time then hey it’s whatever. But if I’m sexing a female I want to focus on that that pu$#y, make sure it’s memorable for both of us. I aim to please. The switching back and forth between females can take away from the sex. Unless its like I said before, unplanned.. Then you got to do what you got to do. Also if its a threesome in which two dudes is banging a chick it’s a total different story. She can be giving head to one while sexing the other at the same damn time. This definitely cant be the main chick or anyone even close to her in status. This is just me personally. With that being said I have many many friends that live that swinger lifestyle. They and their mates seem to love and enjoy it. So I’m definitely not knocking it. To each his own. Just can’t have the thought in my mind that another dude is fu#%ing my girl knowingly.
Ahhhh finally, lol. I must say im a bit surprised. I just figured most men would love to engage in a threesome. You make perfect sense. Its hard trying to please one person, but two at the same damn time …..thats hard. Like I said im selfish, dont wanna share and I would like all the attention on me.
I think to many women don’t live out their sexually fantasies because they believe certain experiences are taboo. Sex is about more than just intercourse its trust, attraction,letting your body me free to enjoy stimulation..I don’t think if a woman participates in a threesome she is bisexual..if rules need to be set than that’s something you and partner should discuss. Group sex shouldn’t be about pleasing your partner only all parties should want to do and enjoy themselves. No judgement just enjoyment!
I think too many women don’t live out their sexually fantasies because they believe certain experiences are taboo. Sex is about more than just intercourse its trust, attraction,letting your body me free to enjoy stimulation..I don’t think if a woman participates in a threesome she is bisexual..if rules need to be set than that’s something you and partner should discuss. Group sex shouldn’t be about pleasing your partner only all parties should want to do it and enjoy themselves. No judgement just enjoyment!