As he presses send on that last “goodnight Babes” text, you’re smiling and thinking to yourself how much you love this man. You close your eyes and go to sleep with dreams of your next date/sex session. At the same time he rolls over and kisses the woman that he lives with, after slowly tucking his phone under his pillow. Just in case he slips and she grabs the phone, he just changed his lock pattern, so there’s no guessing for her. You call him your man. All your friends and family know him or know of him. You on the other hand, are the other woman. The one that has met a few associates and the best bud/cousin. You are alright with playing your role because he treats you well. Some may say that you’re a slut, ho, homewrecker, but you dont care because the d*&% is good and the gifts are better. You’re in a full relationship with dude and are not currently dating anyone else. The bad part is this relationship is one sided. He can’t chose you. He has to much to lose. Child support is a bitch these days and his girl is a good girl. Being in a one sided relationship sucks. No matter how much you try to sugar coat the good that he does, is it really worth the pain of pretending? You tell yourself that he doesn’t love her, her p&%$# is wack, or she doesn’t know how to please him. You know that you’ll allow him access to your entire soul. There’s nothing that you wouldn’t or haven’t done for him. But besides good d%$* and gifts, what has he given you? The truth is he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. You helping him fulfill his fantasy. You giving it to him anyway and anywhere he wants and then there’s his wifey who he goes home to play house with.Why did you put yourself in this position? Better yet how do you get out of it? I know everyone’s thinking that you should just leave! But sometimes it’s not that simple. Why not, you ask? Because I love “my husband” and I don’t want to let him go. I’m hopeful that he will realize what I bring to the tanle and leave her for me. What do you think?